I would say that Gradalis would have to leave TWD to come on our servers. This isn't comparable to an issue of family as you cannot choose who your family is. Even though he is IN-ARGUABLY culpable for joining the clan in the first place, you can't really hold him accountable for the actions of his clan when he obviously just joined and wasn't involved.
This poll is only happening, johnny, because the guy came back and appealed his ban. So we are merely discussing it. I don't see how that makes us have a "hard on" for this guy. Also, I don't think thinking in those terms about these kinds of matters is constructive.