Some people are very insecure. Most people who haven't dealt with that sort of thing are completely ignorant of it, and therefore, very immature in that aspect. Adversity makes people mature most of the time, but in some cases, adds an element of immaturity to the mix. People who have not experienced that are simply less mature and less knowledgeable.
For instance, Nitroz seems not to be able to deal with people giving him shit. This is possibly because he isn't unpopular in school/work/in general, and has never had to deal with being singled out and ridiculed. He is very immature in this regard. However, someone like me, who got shat on his entire life, is extremely insecure. I am way more immature socially as a result, but I certainly can take some shit talk (at least I'm not a pussy is what I'm saying)
In this case, it would be nice simply to know wtf Nitrox wants out of this, putting all judgments of his character (and related... his relationship status) aside.