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would you give here a second chance? and would you trust her?

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Red Foreman is awesome! Anyways, I agree with what WaLLy said. Someone also mentioned your a teenager. There are a lot of girls out there man. No need to be stuck on this one. I know you really like her but there are other girls out there you will like even more.
 
The question I have is why did she cheat on you in the first place, there was certainly a reason for it. Also, giving her the "benefit of the doubt" and having her "prove" to you, how can someone prove that they won't do it again?

Like Brian said, I've had a g/f that has cheated on me too and the biggest thing with me is like Wally said, I couldn't trust her again after that and would always have that "doubt" in the back of my mind. Say if she goes out with friends one night how do you know it's her friends or that other person.

In my opinion it's not worth it man, as I said before there's a reason she did it and until you know that reason you have no clue how to prevent it again, and it might be something that has nothing to do with you. She might have got a wild hair and decided to do it who knows, that's my thoughts on it...
 
I'll keep it simple so that you don't have to read several paragraphes like the last few posts.

Drop her ass like a broken toaster. She hurt you, now let her feel the burn of her mistake.
 
Just dump her now. Then you can see how she reacts. If she still feels the way you do about her, then she'll try to get you back. If she doesn't, well then you know you've made the right choice, and you can move on.
 
blu there was a reason it doesnt make it right but there is,and not prove she wont do it again but prove that she is worth the work. and yes there will always be that doubt but honestly theres nothing i can do so ehh u know and im 20 just so you guys know. and she makes amazing sandwitchs no lie! and scope i did "breack up" with her to see what she did and honestly ive never seen someone cry so much an she tried for 3 days to get me back so i think she is worth the work haha and i still find myself loving her i may just be stupid but hey only gonna live once :D

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and for wally yes i may be but the application process for a new sandwitch maker is tuff ;D
 
ight tombraider, looks like we cant convince u that its better for u to loose her, so sure give her another chans. but be prepared for a relationship full of jealousy, fights, inner anger, sleeping problems and some great sandwitches:D. if u think she worth all that, than go for it.
 
i mean if i ditch the bitch im not gonna be hurt but i think she was sincere :DD and just for the sandwitches it would be worth it hahah and thanks for all your guys opinions! makes me reallly think what i want and you all made valid points :luv:
 
Probably shouldn't have had 2 negative answers for the same questions lol

:wtfderp:

no i wouldnt give her a second chance
no i wouldnt trust her
 
RaZeR said:
who's the person that the poll is reffereing to?
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the person who cheated on you

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PwnSauce said:
Probably shouldn't have had 2 negative answers for the same questions lol

:wtfderp:

no i wouldnt give her a second chance
no i wouldnt trust her
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welll ehh i wanted to see how it would go! some people may have found the could give them a second chance but not trust them again you never know!! im learning ;/
 
She'll cheat again. She's going to do it man. Prepare yourself, at the very least.


I'd have trouble saying no to a girl crying like that, as well, though.
 
i am if she does it again im not gonna be sad as i kick her shit to the curb baaahahahah


and they just have this thing when they cry you instantly feel bad :/
 
It's a natural male thing. And a natural female technique. (notice I did not say reaction, but technique)

It's in the genes. Proven. Don't worry about it. ;)
 
TheDude said:
Analblaster is right. She's not worth it.

Tell her she's a whore and be done with her. If she doesn't even have the guts to tell you she's thinking about other guys before she hooks up with one, she's not worth it.

Girls think they have the right to do anything they please. It's bullshit. Don't let them. They don't own us... no matter how much they'd like to think they do.
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Thats biased TD! not all girls are that way, in fact its the other way around most of the time :P
although if a guy cheated on me i wouldn't even consider a second chance. if someone truly loves you they wouldnt have cheated on you to begin with.

Step one: Go on a very expensive date.
Step two: Dump.
Step three: Leave them with the bill.
 
Kessa said:
Thats biased TD! not all girls are that way, in fact its the other way around most of the time :P
although if a guy cheated on me i wouldn't even consider a second chance. if someone truly loves you they wouldnt have cheated on you to begin with.

Step one: Go on a very expensive date.
Step two: Dump.
Step three: Leave them with the bill.
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Step four: slash their tires on your way to your car

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Don't give that 2nd chance tomb, you'll fucking regret it. I regret my choice to give an ex a 2nd chance, NOPE BAD IDEA.

Don't. Fucking. Do. It.
 
just be sure to get everything u can. Hold it above her head.. rise to the top, dominate her..

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