Thanks Derp.
Update: She (I want to say we but I'm not undergoing...) has talked doctors into letting her wait to start chemo until after christmas at least, and possibly new years. She has her port in place, and is extremely embarrassed by it. Her boyfriend doesn't know if he'll be sticking around... He's not sure he signed up for all this. Which isn't helping. She's staying as positive as she can, and I've been going with her to as many appointments as I can.
thanks for the support guys!