Surely it's all about personal choice. I bought MOH an so far quite like it. I've only played single player so far, so can't comment on multiplayer. As for spawn spots geting shelled, if there are dedicated servers for multiplayer then it's the job of the server admin & staff to keep the spawn raping to a minimum, much like the staff here do.
I will be getting black ops as well as MOH, and i've already told the wife that she will be getting no help from me on the day after release day ;D