Need a little advice

[Garycheese]

So as the title says I am in need of advice.

I have been speaking to this girl for a while now and I am not sure whether to ask her out or not, the problem is that she has not really made it clear if she is interested in me or not but I think I have made it quite obvious I like her, we talk all the time and go to lunch together a lot but I am not sure if I am too deep in the friendzone to ask her out, also she is a co worker who I have to share an office with everyday which could end badly when she says no.

I am just not sure if it is worth the risk asking her out or not because when she says no I could end up losing my job and a few friends.

 

[MikeK]

Why would a no ever end up with a loss of job and friends?
Ask her if she wants to go to some interesting event with you (shouldn't be netflix at your home )
Even if she says no, well, that cannot cause any real problems.. I mean, that would just be a no and if you are in a friendzone you'll most likely stay there. That's not like divorcing with your wife who's at the same time your boss because she caught you cheating on her

 

[Garycheese]

It just if she does say no she will more than likely tell our boss because we are all rather close we go out drinking with our bosses and stuff so it would come up in conversation and just be awkward to work with her after that lol.

 

[PrestoN]

Just do it man, if she says no it shouldn't be a big deal. No reason you shouldn't be able to be friends with someone you asked out.
After all, dating is just another step in getting to know someone.

 

[Garycheese]

Fuck it, been worrying about asking for like 2 months today is the day.

 

[WaLLy]

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[jasmine]

 

[WaLLy]

 

[HIBred]

normally i would say go for it but a co-worker is a touchy area..does your job allow fraternization? Love is important but so is paying rent, being up front usually gets the best response.."hey I'd like to ask you "out" out ...as in I "like" like you "
If its allowed to date coworkers ..hopefully she doesn't work in the next cubicle or anything

 

[Garycheese]

she sits next to me in the same office like 2 feet away

 

[mmnz]

chloroform her and then keep her in a room with you until she likes you

 

[HIBred]

she sits next to me in the same office like 2 feet away

then here's what you do...fart...if she laughs then she loves you and is a keeper

 

[DamageINC]

I was going to suggest texting her naughty pictures and then gauging the response. That should indicate her level of interest. If you get fired or leave in cuffs, move on.

Jokes aside, my best advice would be to just go for it. Life only happens once!

 

[WaLLy]

[DOUBLEPOST=1455492589,1455492540][/DOUBLEPOST]OMG, that shit has me rolling

 

[Garycheese]

Hahahah that is what happend i just did it and got shotdown but oh well

 

[PR3C1Z10N]

Hahahah that is what happend i just did it and got shotdown but oh well

Aww at least you went for it man. I'm 17 and never been in a relationship so hats off to you.